why we want to start an urban homestead

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Pittsburgh has finally thawed out from its usual long winter, and everything is green and blooming. This time of year is always simultaneously exciting and frustrating — we get teasingly warm days in between some chilly, windy days and nights. Joe and I are feeling especially anxious this year because we’re finally starting a project we’ve wanted to do since we moved in together: a small garden in our backyard.

It’s not going to have much this year — just tomatoes, cucumbers, peppers and okra — because we’re total gardening novices. But it’s so exciting because it’s a huge piece of our long-term plan of living a more self-sufficient, sustainable life in the city. We’re starting out small, but eventually, years from now, we’d like to grow the majority of the produce we consume, raise chickens and goats, harvest rainwater and do most other things found on an urban homestead.

Joe gave me a copy of The Urban Homestead last year for my birthday, which was written by Kelly Coyne of the urban homesteading blog Root Simple. I’d been interested in and starting to live a more back-to-basics and eco-friendly lifestyle for a while, but I’d never considered that I could do much more right now than make my own house cleaners and bring reusable bags to the grocery store. I thought I’d need to have tons of land outside of a city to grow much of a garden and raise chickens. This book taught me that it’s way easier than people expect to do these things and more, but it does take some planning and elbow grease. As two people who constantly joke about our future farmhouse with 12 dogs and 18 cats running wild, living off the land as much as possible, I’d say we’re up to the challenge.

So, as we prepare to ~plant the seeds~ for this lifestyle journey, so to speak, we’ll be documenting it here and on Instagram. Right now, our plans include:

  1. Setting up a small container garden so we can take our materials with us whenever we decide to move
  2. Adding native plants to our yard to help preserve Western Pennsylvania’s ecological landscape (and attract bee and butterfly friends to our garden!)
  3. We already took a composting class from the Pennsylvania Resources Council a few weeks ago, where we learned how to make use of our food and yard scraps.
  4. Making more of our own food products at home: non-dairy milks, pickles, salsas, preserves, nut butters, etc., using zero- or low-waste practices in the process
  5. Learning to sew (in Joe’s case) and knitting and embroidery (in my case) and teaching ourselves sustainable building practices
  6. Figuring out more ways to reduce our energy consumption — which is already pretty low, honestly, considering we both mainly use public transit, walk or bike, and we use clean electricity
  7. Buying fewer things, particularly from big-box stores, and shopping secondhand when we do need to purchase something

The long-term plans like solar panels and farm animals will obviously have to wait until we’ve bought our own place and have the financial means for those kinds of large-scale projects. But I’d rather start slow than try to jump into a lifestyle that is bound to have plenty of bumps in the road.

Why are we doing this? Political and environmental events have sort of snowballed into a catalyst for lots more people to become more environmentally conscious; it’s a shame that it’s taken us so long, but it’s better late than never. And tallying up the lifestyle changes that we’ve already made that benefit the environment — like taking public transit and reducing food waste — made us realize that half of them were done out of necessity, anyway. Why not add to that in more concerted ways? People like us, with time and resources and privilege, are instrumental in making the lifestyle changes that could save us from complete climate catastrophe.

Aside from the obvious real-world ramifications, though, we just think it’s a more fulfilling way of life. Capitalism makes us believe we constantly need to buy new things to be happy, and it’s led to a disconnect between Americans and the food and products we consume. But I’ve yet to find anything in modern society that makes me happier than baking a pie from scratch, or finding a great vintage sweater for $5 at a thrift store. My parents had a huge garden one summer when I was a kid, and I loved shucking corn on our front porch and snipping onion tops for my mom to add to whatever she was cooking. My Mawmaw made beautiful quilts and lace, and I watched her pick ripe figs in her backyard every summer and spend weeks making preserves from them.

If we have kids, we want them to know how to cook and make and grow things and appreciate art and music instead of just material objects. This seems like the best way to make that happen, and to live happier lives in the process.

5 small things / january

Happy New Year! Wasn’t it 2016 like six months ago???? Time is weird and dumb.

Last year I spent several months making myself work out like crazy and obsessively counted every calorie I consumed. I even started to get abs, which is truly insane for a lifelong couch potato/The One Picked Last in Gym Class. I was also miserable and having to deal with my mental health issues from the ground up. Lately I’m working on accepting the 5 pounds I’ve since gained and the softness that’s returned to my body. If I have any resolutions at all in 2019, I mostly care about tackling my sugar addiction (it’s bad, y’all), moving more every day and really appreciating the good, little things in my life.

So from now on, at least once a month, I want to write a roundup of my favorite foods, clothes, hobbies, art, music, whatever — things I appreciate that I think other people might appreciate, too. Here’s January’s list:

collard greens with vegan bacon

I made way too much food (what else is new?) for a New Year’s Eve party, including these sweet and tangy collard greens — one batch with real bacon, another with tempeh bacon. Holy hell, they’re delicious, and super easy, and there was virtually no difference in taste between the two versions I made. I’m making them again this weekend, and also maybe like, at least once a month from now on? They’re that good. Collard greens are also inexpensive and super healthy and apparently have special cancer-protection properties. I plan to make them again this week to serve over vegan cheese grits.

this little corner in my office

Because it’s perfect.

midi skirts in winter

My Brilliant Friend Fernanda was telling me the other day that her new aesthetic is “Amish chic,” and I realized that’s exactly what I’ve been channeling since the temperatures dropped in October. Longer skirts over tights with untucked sweaters, turtlenecks, other modestly cut outfits — it’s all I’ve been wearing. I recently got this gingham pleated midi skirt from ASOS and I’m obsessed with it. (Is gingham too 2017? I don’t care. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ ) I also got this super cute, subtly-leopard-print skirt with buttons up the front and a little bit of a slit up the side.

the Pittsburgh Christmas bus

Our transit system debuted a couple of buses and trains for the holidays that look like Buddy the Elf vomited all over them. I didn’t manage to catch a ride on either of the Christmas buses until January 1st, and it made my whole day, especially after spending most of Christmastime feeling like a little bit of a Grinch.

new rituals and routines

I’m a hermit to my core. If I’m left to my own devices, I’ll choose to stay in or do something alone almost always. But, like most people, I don’t actually know what’s good for me, because that preference for solitude and quiet can be a huge damper on my mood. (It doesn’t help that I work nights and Joe works days, and so do almost all of my friends.) Luckily, I live a few blocks away from a great coffee shop with gorgeous natural light, a hot oatmeal bar and the occasional dog tagging along with its owner. On one of my days off each week, I’ve been waking up, grabbing the newspaper and immediately walking over for breakfast. I read, do the crossword, maybe write in my journal. I love our apartment and cats, but the change of scenery does me a lot of good.

Here’s to recognizing more of the little things this year and beyond.